Archive for September, 2007

Cell Phones…Can you hear me now?

Friday, September 28th, 2007

Greetings! The cell phone is an invention that represents a love/hate relationship. You love the convenience, the sense of security, and the ability to be “in contact with others”. You hate it because people misuse it! 

Can you hear me now?????  Here are my personal pet peeves: 

  • Driving slow on a major interstate, or any road for that matter, to the point the driver is oblivious to their surroundings…I call this “driving under the influence of the cell” 

  • People talking loudly on a personal conversation so you have no choice but hear it! 

  • Holding up a check out counter while they talk, hold the phone to their ear, all while trying to get the credit card out and swipe it in the machine! 

  • Cell phones ringing in a meeting or church, and worse yet, they answer it!
  • Talking the entire time during dinner while the other person sits there eating alone. My husband and I were having dinner and observed this happening at a restaurant. The woman sit there eating her dinner, looking around the room hopeful that someone might engage in conversation with her, while he talked the entire time. If that was a first date, it will surely be the last, ha! 

  • Walking in an airport talking on a blue ( pink, purple) tooth…while I realize this is more common than not, I find myself engaging in conversation with the person thinking they are talking to me and then I laugh when I realize they are not. 

What drives you nuts about the cell phone? 

Nyda 

 

Confidence…

Thursday, September 20th, 2007

Greetings!

In my recent travels I have observed people who appeared confident and those who did not. But how did I tell? Was it the way they walked, dressed, and carried themselves? It was all of the above.

But is that all? I believe that self confidence is an attitude that is characterized by a positive belief that one can take control of one’s life and one’s plans. So confidence begins internally and then is seen, heard, and felt externally.

As I thought about confidence I came up with an attribute for each letter in the word confidence. Check them out and see if you agree…

C   Communicate effectively

O   Openness

N   Negativity is a “no no”

F   Fortitude

I   Imagination

D  Determination

E   Empathy

N   Natural—be yourself

C   Connectivity

E   Enthusiasm

 

What others can you contribute to the list? What do people see in you that creates confidence?

As always, please respond and share your thoughts and ideas!

 

Nyda