Archive for October, 2007

The Magnolia Show is back!

Thursday, October 25th, 2007

Greetings!

When you read this blog Friday I will be in the air off to speak at a conference for the weekend. And no, I will not be riding my broom - I have too much stuff to carry this time!

I wanted to announce that The Magnolia Show is back and broadcasting in a new format…now you will be able to SEE and HEAR me on the internet! Each Friday morning at 9a.m. beginning November 2nd I will be doing the show live from a host of different locations. And if you miss it don’t worry because now the shows will be archived. To listen or view the archived shows, visit www.NydaBittmannNeville.com and click on The Magnolia “listen live”.

The Magnolia was launched on the radio waves in September 2006 and has been dedicated to women; however, with this new venue, I am expanding it to focus on business culture, image and brand. The goal of the show is to provide techniques, strategies, and resources to help you blossom into unique flowers, like the magnolia. So gentlemen, you are more than welcome to listen to the shows as I will be having both male and female guests. Additionally, I can come to your business location and conduct the show. Guest appearances and sponsorships are available. Following the show, the guest will receive a link that can be streamed on their website and sent out to clients!

Because this new venue will speak to business culture, what attributes would you consider important to create and sustain a corporate culture?

Have a great weekend and Happy Halloween!

Nyda

Boo! Halloween is coming….

Friday, October 19th, 2007

Boo!

Halloween is right around the corner and the stores are sporting costumes, candy and all types of decorations. Companies are starting to talk about “dress up” for the holiday.

Recently one of my clients was talking about the costume she was putting together to wear to work. When she finished, it took everything I had not to let my mouth drop open. I thought to myself that she must be out of her mind to wear that!

Sooooooo, as the image and brand consultant that I am, I had to question her. Using open ended questions to gain information, I probed for a reason as to why she would want to take a ”blow to her image”. I cannot tell you exactly what the costume was going to be; however, it would certainly gain attention. I am sure you get the picture.

As she explained her reasoning to me, I searched for the right words and how to position them to get her to see that what she was about to do would surely backfire. After several minutes of discussion, she looked at me and said that she “got it”. She thanked me for being honest with her and bringing this potential mistake to her attention.

My reason for discussing this is to ask those of you who are managers or the person that will give the “okay” for a Halloween dress up day at work to offer some “scary tips”. Remember that there are people who have no clue about the impact of their behaviors and actions, much less about image. So please help by giving them guidelines for costumes. Everyone will be glad you did!

We must remember that even costume dressing reflects our image and brand.

Enjoy the holiday and don’t eat too much candy! Oh, and please check your costume before leaving home.

Boo,

Nyda

 

Managing the Stressors in Life

Friday, October 12th, 2007

Greetings!
I don’t know about you, but life seems to have more stressors than years past. I am sure there are a host of reasons for this, but how we respond to those stressors impacts our image and brand.
 

It is 5:30pm Thursday evening and I am busy creating the blog for tomorrow. I have been for the last hour trying to get my office straightened up to face tomorrow with a smile….my Mother has called three times to “talk” …..the phone will not stop ringing…my feet hurt… and in 45 minutes I am to be at a networking event across town which if I leave now I will arrive fashionably late!
 

Now I can hear your comments. They probably include “so what”,  “join the club”, “that is all, let me tell you…”, “your Mother loves you so be glad you still have her calling” and many others. And you are right!
 

How we face and control these and other stressors do impact the way you present yourself. I will, once I have finished this message, straighten up the last few papers, let any callers visit my voice mail, let the dog out, and refresh my looks. I will call my Mother while I am traveling because you are right, I love her and glad that I can still chat with her, leave my shoes off while driving, and finally arrive at the scene of the networking event. 
 

I will then check my attitude, smile, put on my shoes and not worry about by feet, and ENJOY!!!! Iwill tell myself that each appearance I make with others is one snapshot and numerous snapshots create an image. Because I am in control and will manage the stressors of life, I don’t wish to enter the event and allow those stressors to “show” up with me, ha!
 

How do you control the stressors in your life? We would enjoy hearing your techniques so we can try them on for size.

Have a great weekend, enjoy the wonderful weather that most all of our country is experiencing!Nyda
 

Attitude….The Big “A” word

Friday, October 5th, 2007

Greetings! 

Have you had your attitude checked lately? I felt this was a perfect time of the year for us to review our attitude. Fall is beginning, the last business quarter of the year has entered the picture, and the holidays will be upon us very soon.  
 

This is my favorite time of the year. My attitude gets even more positive if you can believe that! Maybe because it is my birthday month and I remember as a child the leaves changing, the chill in the air, and birthday presents, all of which made me feel terrific!

I refer to attitude as the big “A” word because it is an extremely important component of our image and brand. We all know that we do not enjoy spending time with people with a “bad” attitude but rather a positive one. But what is a “bad” attitude? That may differ from one person to another. However, we can see attitude, feel attitude, maybe even taste attitude. I know what you are thinking, Nyda no you can not taste attitude. I beat that you have interacted with someone that has left a nasty taste in your mouth, ha!

Here are nine steps that I have come across from various authors such as Napoleon Hill and W. Clement Stone to develop and maintain a positive mental attitude. Of course, I have added my two cents in there….
 

  1. Take possession of your own mind with conviction. In other words, make a decision to be happy, and then don’t let anyone or anything change your mind.
  2. Keep your mind on the things you want and off the things you don’t want.
  3. Live the Golden Rule. Do you remember what it is?
  4. Eliminate all negative thoughts by self-inspection. Ask yourself, “Is my thinking negative or positive?” You can even keep a journal of your thoughts to see your pattern. If you find you are mostly writing down negative thoughts, make every effort to change your thinking.
  5. Be Happy! Make Others Happy! Remember the song that was popular some years ago, “Don’t Worry, Be Happy”… try singing that one all day today.
  6. Give yourself positive suggestions. Find several positive statements/sayings that you like and write them down on paper. Pin them on the wall where you can see them or better yet, place them on your bathroom mirror so you see them first thing in the morning.  
  7. Set goals. Having direction gives you motivation to get things done and to realize your dreams. Reflect back to January 2007, what goals did you set for this year? What is the status report on each of them?
  8. Study, think and plan daily. Learning is growing. Expanding your mind with positive influences will put you in the right mindset to live each day in a happy way.
  9. Remember you are a walking billboard 24×7….having a positive mental attitude will help enhance the image you are projecting!

Do you have other steps that keep your mental attitude positive, we would love to hear them!
 

Have a great weekend!

Nyda